{"id":418,"date":"2010-03-02T14:46:46","date_gmt":"2010-03-02T21:46:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/eatdrinkrunwoman.com\/?p=418"},"modified":"2010-03-02T14:46:46","modified_gmt":"2010-03-02T21:46:46","slug":"goodbye-sweet-girl","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/eatdrinkrunwoman.com\/?p=418","title":{"rendered":"Goodbye sweet girl"},"content":{"rendered":"

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The past few weeks I’ve been an emotional wreck so blogging has been the last thing on my mind.\u00a0 As I hinted in my last post, our poor kitty had been ailing (chronic renal failure) and we were having to give her subcutaneous fluids.\u00a0 While we knew we wouldn’t have her for long, I had hoped it would be a matter of months — not weeks or days — before we had to make the difficult decision to say goodbye.<\/p>\n

Unfortunately that day came on February 19.<\/p>\n

It’s so tough to know when a pet is ready to go.\u00a0 She certainly was giving us SOME signs — she had pretty much stopped eating and grooming, plus she spent most of the day burrowed under the covers of our bed — but she still would purr when we pet her and would occasionally venture out to hop up on her kitty tree in the front room.\u00a0 But our once talkative, Rubanesque cat was down to a mere seven pounds and meowed nary peep.\u00a0 Things came to a head on the 18th when she awoke in our bed disoriented and proceeded to pee on my darling’s foot.<\/p>\n

The next morning we discussed whether it was time, but we decided we’d wait until after the weekend.\u00a0 Thing was, while I wanted to spend one more weekend with her, we had races on both Saturday and Sunday and therefore we’d be gone much of the time.\u00a0 Besides, I had been having nightmares about her having seizures and being in pain; I couldn’t live with myself if I had waited until it got to that point.<\/p>\n

As my darling headed off to work I started reading stories about people having to make that agonizingly painful decision to put a dear pet down, and one of them really spoke to me.\u00a0 The woman said she too was unsure if the time was right considering her kitty would still purr.\u00a0 But she said that’s what cats often will do to calm themselves down; it didn’t mean they were happy nor comfortable.\u00a0 I texted my darling, asking if we should make the appointment that day.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>It was a gloriously sunny day (as was the rest of the weekend), so when my darling came home we took Xanthe outside for one last taste of freedom.\u00a0 Our neighbor and one of my good friends — both of whom had kitty-sat for us — were there to say goodbye.\u00a0 In looking through the pictures from that day it’s clear the spark had left her.\u00a0 She didn’t even protest during the ride to the vet (my darling held her tight in his coat; we didn’t want her to suffer the trauma of carrying case).<\/p>\n

The end was peaceful, and we were there petting and comforting her the entire time.\u00a0 We now have her ashes back home with us, which brings us some comfort.\u00a0 However, it’s still very, very painful.\u00a0 We will eventually bring another kitty (or two) into our lives, but we’re not ready yet.<\/p>\n

We miss you, sweet girl.<\/p>\n

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